I wish I had a dollar for every time someone came to my Sydney Life coaching practise and complained ‘ The Law of Attraction isn’t working’! or ‘ Where is the money, relationship, career that I have been asking for’! Where is my stuff!!!!!’
As a Sydney Life Coach and Confidence Coach with over 20 years experience, I use the Law of Attraction frequently with my clients. It is is actually very simple – ‘ That which it’s like itself is drawn’.
Thanks to movies like The Secret, more and more people are now familiar with the LOA and are using it’s concepts on a regular basis.
The Law of Attraction Responds to your Feelings
I am a huge fan of the work of Abraham Hicks and have also have attended their workshops many times. This is a leading edge approach to using the Law of Attraction. In particular, the work highlights the fact that in order to make it work for you for you, you must understand that it is reacting to your Feelings – or the Vibration of your emotions.
I have written about the importance of expectation in previous blogs, but today I would like to explore with you why the Law of Attraction may not be working for you personally.
Why the Law of Attraction may not be working for you.
Let’s imagine that you asked for what you want. You are now patiently ( or not so patiently!) waiting for the arrival of the goods / money / relationship etc to manifest into your experience.
However, if what you want is not arriving as quickly as you would like it, the issue is that many of us become impatient and start complaining about it NOT arriving. It is then we start to ask ‘ Where is my stuff!’ or complain that ‘ The Law of Attraction does not work’
Focusing on the Unwanted
This is a universe of inclusion. Therefore, if you are feeling disappointed or complaining that your desires have not yet manifested into your experience, then guess what – your desires are not going to manifest into your experience yet! Simple – You get what you think about!
The LOA is always working, so complaining ‘ where is my stuff‘ will just attract more of ‘ where is my stuff!’
Focus on the Wanted
To adjust this pattern, you need to quit focusing your energy and feelings that what you want has not arrived. Instead, you need to keep your emotions on what you want, and why you want it. Be more receptive to allowing it into your experience. Feel how great it will be when it arrives and feel the excitement of what you want arriving in your life.
Try a few of these more general statements to allow what you want into your life.
1) I know it isn’t here yet but it’s on its way
2) Everything is unfolding perfectly for me, it won’t be long now’
3) I am really looking forward to experiencing the money / success / clients / career that I desire.
Law of Attraction Coaching
Lisa Phillips is a Law of Attraction Coach, Life Coach and Confidence Coach. Lisa has over 20 years experience and is also the author of ‘ The Confidence Coach‘ – Exile Publishing.