It’s true! I know it sounds a little strange but let me explain.
Whenever you feed something into a photocopier, such as a photo or a document, you get a mirror image, or a copy out the other side into the output tray – correct?
Now, this may sound freaky, but your life works like this too!
The fact is, what ever you think, believe or feel, you will experience a copy of in your life.
Your Negative Beliefs
If you have been on the receiving end of hearing some yucky lies about yourself, e.g. that you are worthless, not good enough or not confident enough etc, this will create a negative belief about yourself.
Most of the time we are not even conscious of what are negative beliefs are. Many of our negative beliefs are formed during childhood. They are actually passed down from generation to generation. However, they become our programming for life.
Our negative beliefs, lead to our negative self talk. These beliefs actually hold a ‘ vibration’ – a low frequency. So without realising it, if you believe you are worthless, you are unconsciously sending out this signal to the world. This signal then gets ‘ copied’. The copy will be in the form of an assortment of people or circumstances which will simply copy (or reflect back to you) your overall feelings of being worthless.
I am not Important
If you believe you are not important, you will also continue to attract people into your life who support and ‘ copy’ the belief that you are not important.
Take a few minutes to think about the reoccurring issues in your life? What unwanted experiences do you keep repeating over and over again? Do you keep attracting unhealthy relationships, unavailable partners, bullying bosses or a shortage of money? If so, then this is just your photo copier at play, reflecting back to you your negative beliefs about love, relationships, money and also how you expect people to treat you.
70% of the world’s population is held hostage by the negative belief that they are unlovable. They may convince themselves as an adult that this belief is not true. Unless the belief is healed from childhood, it will continue to be copied. Feeding this little treasure into the photocopier will almost guarantee that you attract situations and people in your life who act out in ‘unloving’ ways towards you.
If this wasn’t bad enough, experiencing all this unloving stuff will simply attach even more legs to the belief that you are 100%, UNLOVEABLE.
Self Fulfilling Prophecy
One of my Life Coaching clients, Helen, got trapped on the self-fulfilling unlovable merry go round. As a child, she was informed that she wasn’t good enough and she often felt deprived of love and a good old bedtime story.
As an adult, her partner often planted the seed in her mind what a rotten person she was and how ‘lucky’ she was to have him. As a result of this, she stayed firmly rooted in a toxic marriage for over twenty years as she was wholeheartedly convinced that no other man would even contemplate buying her dinner, never mind falling in love with her. The negative belief of being ‘ unlovable’ just kept being copied in her life over and over again. No wonder Helen could not just leave her partner, she was running on her old programming.
Remember this little gem… Whatever you Believe… you will Receive!
Thoughts, Beliefs and Feelings
If you really want to see changes appearing in your life, you need to start look at what thoughts, feelings and negative beliefs are feeding into your photocopier. The good news is that with my help, you can easily change this
It has been said that the ‘ definition of insanity is doing the same thing every day and expecting a different result’ so if you are experiencing the same repetitive problems in your life, then it is time to change what is going into your photocopier of life.
This is where my work as a Life Coach comes in. I can help you identify and heal your negative beliefs in only a few sessions. Now image how different your life will be when you feed into your life photocopier POSTIVE BELIEFS such as I am Important, I am loveable and I deserve the best!
Sydney Life Coaching with Lisa Phillips
She is also the Confidence Expert on Love Destination TV.
Lisa is based in the Eastern Suburbs of Sydney, but works with clients all over the world. She provides Life Coaching sessions, Confidence Coaching and Career Coaching. Her expertise as a Life Coach is regularly featured in the Media. Please check out her Coaching testimonials.